I am not saying ALL men are like this, but it seems a huge amount of them are being really idiots. They think that in order to punish someone they have to punish the person’s friends as well. Point: A guy tells a female contractor how to do her job when he doesn’t have experience in that area. He does this on several jobs than starts pestering her to do a small job. She says no. He keeps asking. Note that he only wants to pay 300 total for the labor as well. Finally after the tenth time she gets in his face basically questioning if he is on drugs because he has ignored the fact that she has told him no the past 9 times he asked. So he tells his significant other (who is her friend) that she is not allowed on their property, that the friend can not see nor help her nor even converse with her. Now the affront was that she got in his face and questioned his affiliation with drugs since he seemed to have forgotten the number of times she said no. The friend was not involved at all, yet the friend (husband’s spouse) is being told that the friendship is to be cut off. Now he is spreading HIS version all over town and so is already adding to the lies her brother has already spread and so is ruining her reputation and livelihood in the town. It seems like men penalize their wives/girlfriends/significant others for things that they have no part in. And it is getting worse. They have no right yet they think they rule over the lives of everyone and take no responsibility for THEIR part in the problem.